Saturday, June 14, 2025

Book Review: Disco Witches of Fire Island, Brian Fell (2025)

Blair Fell's "Disco Witches of Fire Island" is a truly fun read that takes you right back to the late 1980s on Fire Island. It's a mix of humor, heartfelt moments, and a touch of magic, perfectly capturing the vibe of that unique time and place.

From the very first page, Fell's writing is sharp and engaging. The characters feel like real people you'd love to hang out with, and their conversations are witty and natural. The story itself is a great blend of magical adventures and everyday drama, moving along at a lively pace that'll keep you hooked.

One of the best parts of "Disco Witches" is how perfectly it captures 1989. If you remember that era, you'll feel a wave of nostalgia. Fell nails the fashion, the music, and all the pop culture details of the late '80s. Reading it is like looking through an old photo album, bringing back memories of a time that felt carefree but was also on the edge of big changes.

Now, if you didn't live through the '80s, you might occasionally scratch your head at some of the specific pop culture mentions. The book is really tied to its time, which is a big part of its charm for those who were there. But even if you don't catch every reference, the main ideas of friendship, finding yourself, and discovering your own magic are easy to connect with.

Overall, "Disco Witches of Fire Island" is a joyful and charming book. Blair Fell has created a story that's special because of its setting but also relatable in its message. It's a great reminder of how important community, self-acceptance, and a little disco magic can be. So, put on your favorite '80s tunes and get ready for a delightful trip to Fire Island!

Carolina Dean
Disco Witch 

Wednesday, June 11, 2025

Review: The Witching Year, Diana Helmuth (2023)

Diana Helmuth's book, The Witching Year, takes you on her personal adventure into modern witchcraft and searching for spiritual meaning. She tries out different magical practices and groups, all while keeping a sensible and often funny attitude about these less common topics.

One of the best things about The Witching Year is how Helmuth writes. She's relaxed and funny, which makes even tricky spiritual ideas easy to understand and interesting. Her writing feels natural, pulling you into her experiences without being showy. This light and smart approach creates a unique voice that keeps the book fresh and relatable.

However, the book sometimes gets very focused on the author's own thoughts, especially her constant overthinking about her spiritual journey. While it's normal to reflect on a personal path, the frequent, detailed breakdowns of every spiritual choice or idea might slow down the story for some readers. This deep self-reflection, even though it's real, can sometimes feel like a lot and might make the book's pace drag.

Overall, The Witching Year is an honest and often funny story about one woman's search for spiritual understanding today. If you're curious about modern witchcraft or exploring your own spiritual path, you'll probably enjoy this book, even with its deep dives into the author's inner thoughts.

Carolina Dean
Tired Elder 

Monday, June 9, 2025

The Most Anticipated, Least Necessary Month: Straight Pride Is Here!


For a long time, it's felt like the focus has been on celebrating the LGBTQ+ community, and some heterosexual people feel their own experiences and culture aren't acknowledged in the same way. There's a sense that straight culture is overlooked, and that can be disheartening. So, I'm suggesting we create a Pride Month specifically for heterosexual individuals. In today's world, being straight can sometimes feel like a distinct experience, and it deserves its own recognition.

Think about online dating. Straight people have to sift through profiles with strange photos, like people posing with fish or even tigers. It takes real courage to navigate all that to find a genuine connection, or at least someone who won't send weird pictures.

And the expectations! Straight people are often expected to be good at things like grilling, assembling IKEA furniture without getting frustrated, and understanding complex sports rules. These aren't just hobbies; they're significant societal pressures. Where's the celebration for the person who successfully put up a shelf or the woman who convinced her partner they needed another decorative pillow?

June is rightly a month for LGBTQ+ Pride. But what about July or August, when summer is in full swing? We could have parades for straight pride! Imagine floats celebrating things like cargo shorts or dad jokes. There could be a "Potluck Power" parade where everyone brings their most classic, simple casseroles.

The music would be classic rock songs about trucks and heartbreak, or even a song about finding the perfect pair of khakis. Speeches would focus on the challenges of picking paint colors that aren't too bold or the quiet struggles of sharing a bathroom cabinet.

It's time we recognize the distinct challenges straight people face. It's not always easy. Sometimes you just want to watch a game without explaining the rules, or eat a meal that isn't fancy or complicated.

So, let's toast the straight community with a casual beer. You've earned it. And who's bringing the seven-layer dip?

In honor of Straight Pride Month, here are 20 watershed moments in heterosexual history

  • The Wheel (around 3500 BCE): Not just for everyone, the wheel eventually led to minivans—perfect for soccer practice.
  • The First Nuclear Family (Pre-history): Early humans pairing up and having kids set the stage for family sitcoms and the growth of suburbs.
  • The Discovery of Fire (Pre-history): Essential for cooking, staying warm, and setting the mood for backyard barbecues and romantic heterosexual evenings.
  • Farming Begins (around 10,000 BCE): This led to settled communities, owning land, and eventually needing bigger homes with two-car garages.
  • The First Diamond Engagement Ring (Ancient Rome): Kicking off a tradition that would cost heterosexual men a lot of money for generations.
  • Building Nuclear Bunkers (Cold War Era): Showing how heterosexuals planned for everything, even in-laws staying too long.
  • The Remote Control (1950s): This invention changed TV time and sparked the first big power struggle between heterosexual couples over who controls the clicker.
  • The "Man Cave" (20th Century): A key part of heterosexual home design, offering a safe space away from decorative pillows and scented candles.
  • First Co-ed Bowling League (Early 20th Century): Encouraged friendly competition and the trend of matching couple's shirts.
  • The "Honey-Do List" (Mid-20th Century): A genius way to organize chores and create endless jokes.
  • The Push Lawnmower (1830): Paved the way for gas-powered mowers and that classic heterosexual weekend activity.
  • Suburban Developments (Post WWII): The perfect picture of the heterosexual dream: white picket fences and homeowners association fees.
  • The Barbecue Grill (Mid-20th Century): Solidified the man's role as the grill master, serving up charred meats.
  • "His and Hers" Towels (Mid-20th Century): A decorative and practical symbol of heterosexual partnership.
  • Golf Courses Galore (20th Century): Provided a hobby and a handy excuse for heterosexual men to get away for a few hours.
  • TV Sitcoms with Heterosexual Families (Mid-20th Century): Helped set social norms and gave countless examples of relatable family arguments.
  • The Minivan (Late 20th Century): The ultimate sign of heterosexual family life, prioritizing practicality over looking cool.
  • Homeowners Associations (Mid-20th Century): Ensured everyone followed the rules, kept property values up, and provided a platform for passive-aggressive neighborly disputes.
  • The First "Dad Joke" (Lost to time): A timeless funny tradition passed down through generations of heterosexual fathers.
  • "Date Night" (20th Century): A groundbreaking idea that let heterosexual couples briefly remember they were more than just parents and bill-payers.
So, as we embark on this groundbreaking journey to establish Heterosexual Pride Month, let's remember the sacrifices made. The brave souls who've had to navigate a world where their romantic comedies are readily available, their weddings are legally recognized, and their existence isn't debated in political arenas. It's truly a testament to their resilience that they've managed to simply be without a dedicated rainbow flag. While some might argue this is a thinly veiled attempt to detract from genuine struggles, we prefer to see it as a bold step towards an even more inclusive future—one where everyone, regardless of sexual orientation, can complain about not being celebrated enough.

Carolina Dean
Homo

Sunday, June 8, 2025

Review: The Inheritor, Marion Zimmer Bradley (1984)

Marion Zimmer Bradley is a really important writer in the fantasy and sci-fi world. Even though her book The Inheritor might not be as famous as her Darkover series, it's a truly excellent read that shows off her amazing writing skills and how well she understands people.

Right from the beginning, Bradley pulls you into a story that feels both familiar and a little bit spooky or mysterious. She writes in a beautiful and clear way, making it easy to picture the scenes and creating characters who are complex and easy to care about.

The events of The Inheritor take place in 1983. The main character is Leslie Barnes, psychologist who moves into a new house in San Francisco with her younger sister, Emily, a talented musician. This house seems like a perfect fit at first. However, almost immediately after they move in, really strange and unsettling things start to happen. It turns out the house has a dark history, connected to previous owners who had met bad ends. Leslie soon realizes she's living in a place with powerful magical energy, and she's suddenly thrown into a battle against dark forces trying to control this power for evil.

Leslie, being a psychologist, is completely out of her depth with these supernatural events. But she gets help from a charming psychic medium named Claire Moffatt and Claire's mentor, a famous psychic investigator named Colin MacLaren. Together, they help Leslie tap into abilities she didn't even know she had, all to protect the house and herself from the evil that lurks there.

A key part of the story also involves Simon Antsey, an acclaimed musician who becomes Emily's mentor. Simon has a dark past, and his influence over the sisters becomes increasingly unsettling. He's connected to the house's mysterious history and is willing to use black magic for his own gain, even if it means doing terrible things. Leslie finds herself in a difficult and even dangerous relationship with him, struggling to see and understand his true nature. 

Bradley really focuses on the emotional side of things. She deeply explores what her characters are feeling—their fears, their hopes, and their often-difficult relationships. You don't just read about what happens; you actually feel it, celebrating their small victories and hurting during their struggles. The story gradually builds tension, leading to an ending that makes you think deeply and stays with you long after you've finished reading.

If you enjoy science fiction that has strong characters and explores big ideas like identity, the power of legacy, and the nature of consciousness, The Inheritor is definitely worth picking up. It's a powerful and moving story that shows Bradley at her best, offering a read that's both smart and emotionally impactful. It's more than just a book; it's an experience I highly recommend.

Carolina Dean 
12th House Books 

Friday, June 6, 2025

New Listing: Astrological Transit Reports!

Ever wonder how the planets affect your daily life? My monthly report helps you understand just that. It's a personalized digital guide that shows how the planets will influence you next month, based on your unique birth details.

Here's what your personalized report includes:

  • Planetary Movements: Discover how planets changing zodiac signs will affect the overall themes of your month.
  • Life Areas: Find out which parts of your life (like relationships, career, or money) will be most active as planets move
  • through your personal astrological chart (i.e. the houses)
  • New Beginnings: Learn about new opportunities and areas for growth as New Moons bring fresh energy to specific parts of your chart.
  • Turning Points: Get insights into important moments of completion or breakthroughs as Full Moons reach their peak in your chart.

How this report helps you:

  • Plan Ahead: Be prepared for upcoming energies and plan your month more effectively.
  • Understand Yourself: Get a deeper understanding of your journey and how cosmic forces interact with your life.
  • Make Better Choices: Feel more confident in your decisions and in handling challenges and opportunities.

What's NOT included

  • Moon's Quick Movements: The Moon moves too fast to be useful for a monthly overview.
  • Detailed Planet Interactions: This report focuses on the main energies of planets entering new signs and houses for a clear monthly guide, rather than complex interactions between planets, that is the aspects between the planets in your birth chart and the transiting planets, with the exception of conjunctions.
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Natal Chart with Transits for June 1st 2025

This report outlines significant astrological transits for Guido Bendetti during June 2025, offering insights into potential themes and energies. Please note that these are general interpretations and a personalized consultation with a natal chart would provide more specific and nuanced analysis. For example. this report does NOT take into account astrological aspects occurring between the planets during the month. 

June 5: Venus in Taurus (6th House)

This transit brings a focus on comfort, stability, and practicality to your daily routines, work environment, and health matters. With Venus in its home sign of Taurus, there's an increased desire for harmony and pleasantness in your immediate surroundings. In the 6th House, this suggests that you may find satisfaction and ease in your work, potentially leading to improved relationships with colleagues or a more enjoyable work-life balance. It's an excellent time to beautify your workspace, focus on self-care, or implement routines that bring you greater well-being. Financial opportunities related to work or health may also arise.

June 8: Mercury in Cancer (8th House)

Your mental focus shifts towards deeper, more introspective, and perhaps more sensitive topics. Mercury in Cancer encourages intuitive thinking and communication that is emotionally driven. In the 8th House, this transit brings your attention to shared resources, intimacy, psychological matters, and potentially taboo subjects. You may find yourself contemplating your emotional security, joint finances, or exploring hidden aspects of your psyche. Conversations during this period could be profound and reveal significant insights. It's a good time for research, delving into mysteries, or discussing financial plans with partners.

June 9: Jupiter in Cancer (8th House)

Following closely on the heels of Mercury, Jupiter's ingress into Cancer amplifies the themes of the 8th House. Jupiter expands and magnifies, so this transit suggests growth, opportunity, and good fortune in areas related to shared resources, inheritance, intimacy, and psychological transformation. There may be opportunities for financial gain through partnerships, investments, or unexpected windfalls. This is a potent time for deep psychological healing, spiritual growth, and an increased understanding of the interconnectedness of life. Be mindful of potential overindulgence in these areas.

June 11: Full Moon in Sagittarius (1st House)

This Full Moon highlights your personal identity, self-expression, and how you project yourself into the world. With the Full Moon in Sagittarius, there's a strong emphasis on truth, freedom, and personal philosophy. In your 1st House, this lunation brings a culmination or illumination regarding your sense of self and your personal journey. You may experience a breakthrough in understanding who you are and what you stand for. It's a time to release old self-concepts that no longer serve you and embrace a more expansive and authentic version of yourself. There may be an urge to travel, learn, or explore new philosophies.

June 17: Mars in Virgo (10th House)

Your ambition, drive, and energy are directed towards your career, public image, and long-term goals. Mars in Virgo brings a methodical, analytical, and perfectionistic approach to your professional endeavors. In the 10th House, this transit suggests that you will be focused on achieving practical results and improving your efficiency in your chosen field. This is an excellent time to take decisive action towards your career aspirations, refine your professional skills, and meticulously plan your next steps. Be mindful of being overly critical of yourself or others in your professional dealings.

June 20: Sun in Cancer (8th House)

The Sun's ingress into Cancer further emphasizes the themes of the 8th House that have been developing throughout the month. Your core identity and vital energy are now focused on shared resources, intimacy, psychological depth, and transformation. This is a time for introspection, understanding your emotional security, and delving into the deeper currents of your life. You may find yourself drawn to exploring the mysteries of life, engaging in profound emotional connections, or managing joint finances. This period encourages you to confront and integrate hidden aspects of yourself.

June 25: New Moon in Cancer (8th House)

This New Moon marks a powerful new beginning in the areas governed by the 8th House. It's an opportune time to set intentions related to shared resources, investments, intimacy, psychological healing, and transformation. With the New Moon in Cancer, these intentions will be rooted in emotional security and a desire for deep connection. Consider what you want to cultivate in terms of joint ventures, financial partnerships, or your psychological well-being. This is a potent time to initiate new therapeutic practices, financial plans, or to deepen intimate bonds.

June 26: Mercury in Leo (9th House)

Your communication style and mental focus become more expressive, confident, and optimistic. Mercury in Leo encourages you to share your ideas with enthusiasm and creativity. In the 9th House, this transit directs your attention towards higher education, foreign travel, philosophy, and spiritual exploration. You may feel a strong desire to learn new things, share your beliefs, or embark on an adventure. This is a favorable time for teaching, writing, publishing, and engaging in intellectual discussions that broaden your horizons. Be mindful of being overly dramatic or self-centered in your communication.

Summary:

June 2025 for Guido Bendetti appears to be a month of significant internal and external transformation, particularly centered around the themes of shared resources, intimacy, and psychological depth, heavily influenced by the 8th House. The beginning of the month brings focus to daily routines and financial stability in the workplace, while the latter half shifts towards expansive opportunities in joint ventures and a powerful urge for personal evolution. The Full Moon highlights personal identity and a desire for truth, while Mars provides the drive for career advancement. The month culminates with a strong focus on new beginnings in deep, transformative areas and a shift towards broader intellectual and philosophical pursuits.


Carolina Dean 
Two Headed Astrology 

Thursday, June 5, 2025

An Open Letter to My Critics and My Role in Hoodoo

Blessed are ye, when men shall revile you, and persecute you, and shall say all manner of evil against you falsely, for my sake. Rejoice, and be exceeding glad: for great is your reward in heaven: for so persecuted they the prophets which were before you. 

Matthew 5:11-12


This week, I saw some TikTok videos claiming Harriet Tubman wasn't real. Thankfully, many other creators quickly disproved these claims with evidence. My writing partner, Denise Alvarado, isn't on TikTok, so I texted her about it. I suggested she share her article on Harriet Tubman to promote our Hoodoo Almanac, thinking people would prefer information from an educated researcher over a conspiracy theorist.

I left it to Denise and went to bed. The next morning, I woke up early, around 1:30 AM. Since I had some time before work, I filmed a quick video featuring Denise's article from the Hoodoo Almanac and added relevant hashtags to help publicize the book.

A few hours later, during my first work break, I checked my phone and saw a short, negative comment on my video. I made the mistake of asking the person to explain, hoping to be a peacemaker. Instead, I was criticized for being white and supposedly profiting from "closed practices" meant only for people of African descent.

The debate went nowhere, so for my own peace, I deleted the comments and blocked the account. However, after thinking about it all day, I want to address a few points:

There Are No "Hoodoo Police"

While some people claim to be authorities on Hoodoo and try to dictate who can or cannot practice it, they have no actual authority. They only have opinions.

My Hoodoo Knowledge Comes from Experience, Not Just Books

I'm 52 years old and grew up before Hoodoo was widely written about or easily found online. I learned these practices from people, many of whom were Black. For example, when I was a customer service representative at Winn Dixie in Beaufort, South Carolina (in the Low Country), I often used my psychic abilities to help older women with their dream books to pick winning lottery numbers. In return, these women taught me techniques, spells, and rituals. Some even gave me supplies like candles, mojo bags, and oils.

None of these wise individuals ever told me their knowledge was a secret. They shared with me because they saw I was sincere and would use the information wisely and respectfully. If Hoodoo were a "closed practice," they would not have shared their "secrets" with me.

For public record, I am also a graduate of Lucky Mojo's Hoodoo Rootwork Correspondence Course (Student Number 56G). I was among the first group to sign up for the course in the early 2000s, which enhanced my Hoodoo education but wasn't its sole foundation. And in graduating I earned that G, which is more than I can say for many other people. 

My Work Has Value

Yes, I do "profit" from the Hoodoo Almanac, but I'm not going to get rich from it. The point is, my time and talent are valuable and clearly in demand, or we wouldn't be selling books. I have years of experience in the Hoodoo Tradition—more years than some of my critics have been alive. I refuse to be disrespected for being white and for trying to inform, educate, enlighten, or enrich others' lives with the knowledge entrusted to me.

And yet I also profit in non-material ways as well. I have formed many genuine friendships, and I have heard from countless people over the years who have shared with me how I have touched their lives in a meaningful way. My generosity is evident if you look at my work, the vast amount of free information and wisdom I've shared over the years, and my countless charitable acts.

Moving Forward

I will no longer engage with detractors. Their comments will be deleted, and their accounts blocked at the first sign of disrespect. As I've said, I'm olde and tired of false accusations, racism, people trying to police me, and people trying to tear me down. However, I am not too old or tired to defend my name and those I love and I will use every tool available to me to protect myself.  I only strive to be a source of light and live a peaceful life. 

Carolina Dean
Two Headed Doctor 

Wednesday, June 4, 2025

Review: Murder, Take Two By Carol J. Perry (2020)

In Carol J. Perry's tenth "Witch City" book, we're back in Salem, Massachusetts, a town full of history and a bit of a spooky vibe. The main character, Lee Barrett, is at the center of it all. She's a former journalism student who's also a young widow, still dealing with her grief. Lee lives in the apartment above her Aunt Ibby's house, who also happens to be a semi-retired librarian. This time, Lee gets pulled into a puzzling mystery when a couple of old students ask for her special help. Their nephew, Cody McGinnis, a respected local professor, has been accused of murder.

What makes this case stand out is how much it's like a crime from the past. The way the professor's alleged victim was killed is strangely similar to a real murder that happened in Salem in 1830, when a sea captain was brutally killed. This link to the past makes the current investigation much more interesting and complicated. Roger and Ray Temple arrive in Salem to support Professor McGinnis. They're sure he's innocent and specifically ask Lee for her help because she's known for solving the town's toughest cases. Many of McGinnis's students also believe he's innocent and have even started a fund to help with his defense, showing how much they like and respect him.

This particular "Witch City" book is a bit different from the others. Usually, Lee's special ability – where she sees important clues in everyday things – shows up pretty early in the story and helps her figure things out. But in this book, the mystery unfolds more like a classic detective story, relying on regular police work and using clues to figure things out. Lee's special visions, which are a big part of the series, don't appear until much later. This shifts the focus to the more traditional ways of solving a crime. A fun and smart part of the story is Lee's careful planning of a real-life game of Clue. This creative idea isn't just a fun side story; it also cleverly mirrors the detective work Lee is doing, making the book more interactive and entertaining.

Even though the main mystery is serious, Perry adds some charming and quirky moments that lighten the mood. The funny antics of Aunt Ibby and her two lively friends, who jokingly call themselves "Charlie's Angels" with Rupert Pennington as their somewhat unwilling "Charlie," provide some great comic relief. Their playful adventures, though a bit silly, balance out the darker parts of the murder investigation, keeping the story from getting too grim. And it's especially nice to see the beginning of a romantic interest between Ray Temple and Aunt Ibby. This sweet, quiet side story nicely shows that romance and connection aren't just for young people, adding a gentle and relatable touch to the whole tale.

Links

Murder, Take Two (Amazon) 


Carolina Dean 
Official Book Reviewer
12th House Books 

Tuesday, June 3, 2025

Angel and the Bad Man

Pride Month is a time to celebrate all kinds of love and identity, especially for LGBTQ+ people. While we often focus on stories where queer relationships are clear and openly shown, there's also a lot to be said for love that's felt deeply but not always spoken out loud. We call this subtext, and it's a powerful thing.

A great example of this is the relationship between Dean Winchester and Castiel from the TV show Supernatural. Dean is a gruff monster hunter, and Castiel is an angel. For many years, fans—especially queer fans—saw something much more than just friendship between them.

Right from the start, when Castiel pulled Dean out of hell, you could feel a strong connection. Castiel was always willing to go against heaven itself, even giving up his angelic powers, all for Dean. He believed in Dean completely, even when Dean doubted himself. This deep trust was a huge part of their story.

And Dean? He was known for keeping everyone at arm's length, rarely showing his true feelings. But with Castiel, he let his guard down. Their conversations often had unspoken meanings, full of deep feelings. Dean's fierce need to protect Castiel, his desperate pleas for the angel to stay, and the obvious pain he felt when Castiel was hurting—all of these showed how much he truly cared. The way they looked at each other, the small touches, the way they seemed to gravitate toward one another—these weren't just signs of friendship. They were signs of a powerful, undeniable love.

Fans even came up with the name Destiel to describe this deep, often gay, love story. For many queer viewers, their bond mirrored their own experiences of loving someone in ways that society doesn't always understand or accept. The longing, the deep devotion, and the way they faced huge challenges together really hit home for people who've loved outside the usual boxes.

Even though Supernatural didn't officially make their relationship romantic until the very end of the show (and it was a brief, heartbreaking moment), the subtext had already done its work. It helped countless viewers see themselves reflected in a connection that went beyond simple labels. This gave them a powerful sense of belonging.

This Pride Month, as we celebrate the brave people who live openly and truly, let's also remember the power of subtext. It teaches us that love comes in countless forms and can't always be neatly categorized. Love can be found in a look, in what's left unsaid, in unwavering loyalty, and in the deep bond between two people, no matter who they are.

The story of Dean and Castiel, and the passionate Destiel fanbase, gives us an important lesson: Real connection and love, in all its shapes and sizes, will always find a way to be seen and felt, even if no one ever says it out loud. It reminds us to recognize and value love wherever it exists, and how powerful it is to see ourselves in the stories we care about, even if it's just in the quiet moments. It's a reminder that love is vast, limitless, and truly extraordinary.

Carolina Dean
Team Destiel 

Monday, June 2, 2025

Heavens to Hollywood! The Astrology of Leslie Jordan, Gay Icon. (1955 -2022)

Leslie Jordan was a very energetic and passionate person, full of confidence and always ready to jump into action. He was a natural leader and very independent. However, sometimes he might have struggled with motivation when it came to practical tasks, appearing a bit unfocused.

Once he made up his mind, he was incredibly stubborn and determined, not easily swayed by change. This also meant he preferred things to be consistent and could sometimes seem serious or inflexible if things changed suddenly.

He was often influenced by others and did best when working with people or when encouraged to act. He loved being in the public eye and enjoyed social interactions. A big part of his life's journey involved understanding other people and forming partnerships, learning to balance his own needs with those of others.

His Core Being

Leslie had a magnetic and powerful presence that drew people in. He was naturally private and somewhat mysterious, and his intense gaze could be intimidating. People often looked to him to take charge.

His life's direction was tied to deep transformation. He was likely skilled at creating different "personas" to deal with sensitive or controversial topics, and he found his strongest expression when confronting difficult subjects. The more he understood himself, the easier it was for him to let go of emotional burdens.

How He Expressed Himself

  • Practical and Reasonable: Leslie was a down-to-earth person who brought a voice of reason to situations. He was driven by a need for security and comfort, had a talent for art and design, and appreciated beauty. While charming, he sometimes needed to work on compromising in relationships.
  • Dramatic and Loyal Emotions: He expressed his emotions in a grand, dramatic way. He was fiercely loyal but expected the same in return, and disloyalty deeply hurt him. He loved attention and the spotlight, always seeking recognition, and he might have worried a lot about what others thought of him.
  • Methodical Thinking: He thought things through carefully and was slow to make decisions, but once his mind was set, it rarely changed. This could sometimes lead him to miss out on opportunities. He enjoyed deep conversations but could become argumentative if he didn't get that intellectual connection.
  • Passionate Lover and Worker: Leslie was a passionate person who craved excitement in love; boredom might have led him to seek new thrills. He was attracted to ambitious, hardworking people. While dedicated to his career, he might have neglected his personal life, and office romances could have caused problems. He also needed to be careful about overindulging.
  • Curious and Driven: He was driven by a strong desire for knowledge, always seeking details, facts, and even gossip. He was witty, intelligent, and thrived on intellectual conversations. He was assertive when it came to finances and often profited from taking risks. He could also be sexually assertive, finding tension relief in sex, but focusing too much on this could harm his relationships.

His Life's Bigger Themes

  • Kind and Generous: Leslie was naturally kind and generous, likely due to a good upbringing. He was always willing to help others, and that help was returned when he needed it. He probably had a warm home, enjoyed cooking, and loved to entertain. He was a natural caregiver but also loved to travel and experience new cultures, possibly even writing about his adventures. No matter how far he traveled, home was his anchor.
  • Intense Passion and Intimacy: He channeled his intense passion into positive, creative work. He had strong sexual energy, and it was important for him to avoid being promiscuous. His life's mission involved fostering intimacy and avoiding vindictiveness when hurt. Holding onto grudges could lead to an obsession with power or addiction. He deeply cared about being liked and respected, often feeling torn between being his authentic self and meeting others' expectations.

Generational Influences

  • Rebellion and Exploration: Leslie belonged to a generation that questioned traditional family norms. He had a strong desire to travel and explore the world, and he was open to unconventional beliefs, though he needed to be careful not to become fanatical.
  • Idealism and Spirituality: His generation idealized art, justice, peace, and love, bringing new ideas about relationships into popular culture. He might have sacrificed his own needs for love. He had a strong spiritual side, finding happiness in practices like yoga or meditation, and might have been drawn to charity work. Without proper development, this could have led to him escaping through substance abuse.
  • Power and Creative Expression: His generation focused on power and creative expression. They explored their "dark side" to create impactful work and challenged taboos. These individuals strived for the top, working hard for fame and recognition, but they needed to guard against becoming addicted to power.

Key Life Lessons and Growth

  • Feeling Different and Finding Belonging: Leslie had a deep wound around not belonging or feeling different. He likely faced pressure to conform but found healing by accepting his true self. As he grew, he often became a fierce protector of others, finding healing by helping those in need.
  • Adventure and Self-Reliance: His path to growth involved stepping out of his comfort zone, traveling to new places, and exploring different ideas. He was meant to become more self-reliant, manage his resources well, and live a more consistent, dependable life while being grateful for what he had.

Strengths and Challenges

  • Optimistic and Open to New Experiences: He had a strong urge to expand his knowledge and pursue spiritual growth, which gave him a positive outlook and a belief in humanity's goodness. This also brought him sudden, unexpected opportunities for travel and new experiences.
  • Balancing Desire for Spotlight and Self-Worth: A key challenge for Leslie was the tension between his desire for the spotlight and his need to be liked and respected. This could have led to shyness, a lack of confidence, and potential relationship issues, loneliness, or depression if not addressed. Overcoming this required him to develop self-assurance, self-acceptance, and self-esteem.

This information provides a deep look into Leslie Jordan's unique personality and how he navigated his life, highlighting his strengths and areas for growth.


Source of Birth Data 

  • The birth date and place was taken from IMBD. 
  • The birth time was taken from an Instagram story in which the native gave his birth time.


Carolina Dean 
Official Astrologer
12th House Books 

Sunday, June 1, 2025

Always a Friend

Note: You might be wondering why I'm writing about an old TV show on a book blog. Besides being a bookseller, I'm also a gay man who loves pop culture. Growing up in the 70s, 80's and 90s, I learned about gay culture mostly through TV and movies. This June, for Pride Month, I'll be sharing articles about the LGBTQ+ community through a pop culture lens. You can find my past articles on these topics here.

On this, the first day of Pride Month, let's look back at a truly special moment in TV history.  It was an episode of the popular TV show The Jeffersons called "Once a Friend." and in aired in October 1977. This episode was a big deal because it showed something on American TV that no one had really seen before: a transgender person.

In this episode, George Jefferson, a grumpy but often funny character, meets up with an old navy buddy he remembers as "Eddie." But "Eddie" is now Edie, and she lives as a woman. George is really confused and uncomfortable at first. He can't quite get his head around it. His wife, Louise, who is always more understanding, tries to help him see things differently.

Imagine this: in 1977, most people didn't know much about gender identity or what it meant to be transgender. If it was talked about at all, it was often in a negative or strange way. The Jeffersons was known for talking about tough subjects, but this was especially brave. They decided to show a transgender person as a real human being.

George's first reactions were probably a lot like what many viewers at home were feeling. He said awkward things and struggled to understand. But the amazing thing about the show and the actor, Sherman Hemsley (who was a closeted gay man himself), was that George eventually accepted Edie.

As the episode goes on, George's real friendship with Edie starts to matter more than his confusion. He begins to see her as the same person he knew and liked from before. This change in George's mind was super important. It showed everyone watching that it's possible to understand and accept people, even if you're confused or uncomfortable at first.

Sure, if we watch "Once a Friend" today, some parts might seem a bit old-fashioned or even a little off. But for its time, it was a huge step forward. It started conversations about gender identity and helped people think differently about their own ideas. Most importantly, it showed a transgender character in a kind and normal way, which was unheard of back then.

This episode of The Jeffersons proves how powerful TV can be. It's not just for laughs; it can also teach us and challenge how we think. It was a pioneering moment that helped open the door for more LGBTQ+ characters on TV later on. It showed that even someone like George Jefferson could learn to be accepting. "Once a Friend" truly was a groundbreaking moment for American television.


Carolina Dean
Confirmed Bachelor 

Saturday, May 31, 2025

Book Review: Grave Errors, Carol J. Perry (2017)

If you're looking for a mystery that really grabs you, Grave Errors by Carol J. Perry is a fantastic choice. This is the fifth book in her Witch City Mystery series, and it's another charming trip to Salem, Massachusetts. It has everything a fan of cozy mysteries could want.

Right away, Perry's writing is excellent. It's super easy to read and pulls you into the story with great descriptions of Salem. You can almost feel the autumn air and the magical vibe of the town, which makes it a perfect setting for a mysterious and supernatural tale.

The characters are what really make Grave Errors stand out. Lee Barrett, the main character, continues to grow. Her unique charm and special "gift" make her a lovable detective you can easily connect with. Her interactions with her Aunt Ibby and the amazing cat O'Ryan add warmth and humor, making their detective team a lot of fun to follow. The other characters are also well-developed, creating a rich and believable community that feels familiar.

The mystery itself is a perfect example of cozy suspense. Perry skillfully crafts an exciting plot with unexpected twists that keep you guessing until the very end. Unlike some cozy mysteries that can be predictable, Grave Errors feels fresh, making the journey to solve the mystery as enjoyable as finding out the answer. The mix of traditional detective work and Lee's subtle paranormal insights gives it a unique and comforting feel.

Whether you've been following the Witch City Mysteries for a while or you're new to Carol J. Perry's books, Grave Errors is a wonderful read. It shows how skilled Perry is that even if you start with this book, you'll quickly get hooked and want to read more (and future) adventures. If you're looking for a relaxing, enjoyable mystery with lovable characters, a captivating plot, and a touch of magic, Grave Errors is the book for you. It's a truly enchanting addition to the genre.

Carolina Dean 
Official Book Reviewer
12th House Books 

Tuesday, May 27, 2025

Review: A Death Long Overdue, Eva Gates (2022)

A Death Long Overdue is the seventh book in the Lighthouse Library Mystery Series.  It's a great example of Eva Gate's writing skills, mixing a fascinating mystery with fun characters and a setting so appealing you'll want to pack your bags for the Outer Banks. Stepping back into the Bodie Island Lighthouse Library feels instantly familiar and welcoming. Gates' descriptions are so vivid, you can almost feel the wind and see the historic lighthouse, making the setting feel like a character itself. It's a book lover's dream spot, tucked away in a national treasure.

The story revolves around Lucy Richardson, a smart librarian who approaches solving mysteries in a sensible, down-to-earth way. She's not just observing; she's actively and logically piecing together a cleverly built puzzle. "A Death Long Overdue" is full of unexpected twists that kept me guessing until the very end. Just when I thought I had the killer figured out, Gates cleverly pulled a fast one, leading to a truly satisfying and surprising conclusion.

Beyond the compelling mystery, the book shines because of its lovable characters. Charles, the mischievous library cat, continues to steal scenes with his charm, and the developing relationship between Lucy and Mayor Connor MacNeil adds a sweet touch. Even the quirky characters, like Louise Jane, make the community feel rich and real, providing both humor and occasional frustration in an authentic way.

"A Death Long Overdue" is more than just a mystery; it's an invitation to a world where books, community, and a hint of danger create an irresistible reading experience. If you're a long-time fan of the Lighthouse Library series or new to Eva Gates' work, you'll be charmed, intrigued, and thoroughly entertained. This book is a shining example of why cozy mysteries are so loved, and I highly recommend it.


Carolina Dean 
Office Book Reviewer

Monday, May 26, 2025

Book Review: The Corpse in the Crystal Ball, Kari Lee Townsend (2012)

"The Corpse in the Crystal Ball" by Kari Lee Townsend is the second book in the Fortune Teller Mystery series. It is a really fun and engaging mystery! It's the second book in the "Sunny Meadows Mystery" series, and it perfectly mixes supernatural stuff with a good old-fashioned whodunit. It all takes place in the charming town of Divinity, New York.

Right away, you're pulled back into the world of psychic Sunshine Meadows, whose special abilities are put to the test again. Townsend does a fantastic job creating a complex and exciting mystery with plenty of twists that will keep even big mystery fans guessing. The story is strong and keeps you on the edge of your seat, but what really makes this book special are the amazing characters.

Sunny herself is a super likable main character, dealing with both a murder investigation and her growing romance with Detective Mitch Stone. Their slow-burning relationship adds a nice touch to the crime-solving. But the real stars, as many fans will agree, are the memorable side characters. Granny Gert, with her hilarious antics, and the grumpy cat, Morty, bring lots of genuine laughs that lighten the mood without taking away from the main mystery. They make the town of Divinity feel lively and real, full of friends you'll want to visit again.

Townsend's writing is smooth and welcoming, making "The Corpse in the Crystal Ball" a quick and enjoyable read. Even though it's part of a series, you can easily read it on its own and still get a complete and satisfying mystery. If you're looking for a cozy mystery that has it all—a clever plot, charming characters, funny moments, and a touch of the supernatural—then this book is a must-read. It's truly a great find, and I can't wait to see what Sunny and her quirky group do next!

Crime-Scene Dean
12th House Books 

Sunday, May 25, 2025

Book Review: The Hanged Man, T.J. MacGregor (1998)

The Hanged Man by T.J. MacGregor is a really exciting book that mixes a detective story with psychic powers. From the start, you'll be hooked by the setting in Fort Lauderdale and the spooky idea of a woman who sees a murder before it happens with her psychic abilities.

What makes this book stand out is how well the police detective Wayne Sheppard's investigation works with the sometimes strange insights of Mira Morales, a psychic who owns a bookstore. Mira is a great main character – she's strong and easy to relate to, and her special abilities make the investigation more interesting without feeling fake. The other characters, like Mira's energetic grandmother, are also engaging, making you care about what happens to them in this dark and complicated story.

MacGregor's writing is sharp and smart, pulling you through the story at a suspenseful pace that makes it hard to put the book down. The action scenes are well-done, and the underlying ideas of government secrets and the darker side of psychic power add an exciting depth that makes it more than just a regular thriller. Just when you think you know what's going on, the author throws in unexpected twists that keep you guessing until the very end.

"The Hanged Man" is more than just a murder mystery. It's about exploring the unseen, showing the power of gut feelings, and it's a truly riveting page-turner. If you like thrillers with a supernatural touch, well-developed characters, and a story that will keep you on the edge of your seat, then you absolutely have to read this book. I can't wait to read the rest of the series!

Carolina Dean 
Book Guy

Thursday, May 22, 2025

Booked Solid: What I've Been Reading (Plus, I Conquered a Series!)

I'm a big reader, especially books about books! When I go to thrift stores to find old or unusual books for my online shop, I also look for interesting things to read for fun. I found a book called 'Murder is Binding' at a thrift store, and it turned out to be the first in a series I'd never heard of. I enjoyed it a lot! Since then, I've read about twelve books in the series, but I've been reading them in whatever order I find them at thrift stores. However, I recently ordered that last few books on amazon and read them in order. 


The Premise 

The Booktown Mystery Series by Lorna Barrett centers around Tricia Miles, a savvy businesswoman who owns "Haven't Got a Clue," a mystery bookstore in the quaint New Hampshire town of Stoneham. This town has rebranded itself as a "Booktown," attracting bibliophiles and tourists. However, amidst the charming bookstores and literary events, Tricia frequently finds herself entangled in real-life mysteries, often involving murder. As an amateur sleuth, she must navigate the close-knit community, uncover hidden secrets, and clear her name or those of her friends, all while running her bookstore. Essentially, it's a cozy mystery series set in a book-lover's paradise, where fictional mysteries become all too real.

  1. Murder is Binding (2008)
  2. Bookmarked for Death (2009)
  3. Bookplate Special (2009)
  4. Chapter and Hearse (2010)
  5. Sentenced to Death (2011)
  6. Murder on the Half Shelf (2012)
  7. Not the Killing Type (2013)
  8. Book Clubbed (2014)
  9. A Fatal Chapter (2015)
  10. Title Wave (2016)
  11. A Just Clause (2017)
  12. Poisoned Pages (2018)
  13. A Killer Edition (2019)
  14. Handbook for Homicide (2020)
  15. A Deadly Deletion (2021)
  16. Clause of Death (2022)
  17. A Questionable Character (2023)
  18. A Controversial Cover (2024)
  19. A Perilous Plot (2025)
To date I have read ALL of the books in this series with the exception of A Perilous Plot, which will be available later this year. 

Readers check in, what have YOU been reading?

Carolina Dean 

Sunday, May 18, 2025

Crush

The fluorescent lights of Northwood High always seemed to hum with a particular cruelty for Carson. As a sophomore, skinny and perpetually hunched, he navigated the crowded hallways like a ghost, trying to become invisible. But Travis, a senior whose popularity radiated like heat from his football jersey, made sure that invisibility was a luxury Carson couldn't afford. Travis, with his easy swagger, booming laughter, and yes, the tuft of dark hair peeking above his t-shirt neckline, seemed to find endless amusement in Carson's quiet existence, his taunts echoing in the crowded halls.

Carson, with his secret fascination for dusty books on folklore and the comforting weight of a mojo bag in his pocket, felt the sting of each word like a physical blow. He yearned for it to stop, for a reprieve from the constant knot of anxiety in his stomach. Turning to the whispered lore he’d always found solace in, an idea, dark and desperate, began to take root. A voodoo doll. A way to finally fight back, even if only in the realm of shadows, even if none of his other spells ever worked at least he'd feel better. 

Under the cloak of a moonless night, the house silent around him, Carson sat on the floor at the foot of his bed. He’d painstakingly crafted the doll, a crude likeness of the hulking figure that haunted his days. Pins lay scattered beside him like fallen stars. At the stroke of midnight, a chill snaked through the room. He held the doll tight, his heart hammering against his ribs, and began to speak the words he’d practiced in hushed whispers: "Open the door, Papa! Open the door and bring Travis to me!" 

At first nothing happened and then Carson heard the creek of his bedroom door as it slowly opened. On the other side, a form stood before him. It was Travis. Not the boisterous, confident Travis of the hallways, but a softer, sleep-rumpled version, clad only in grey sweatpants that hung low on his hips. Carson’s breath hitched. He hadn’t anticipated this… this close proximity, this unexpected vulnerability. He found himself unexpectedly captivated by the curve of Travis’s shoulder, the faint outline of muscle beneath his skin.

He swallowed hard, trying to remember the anger that had fueled his spell. “I… I summoned you,” Carson began, his voice barely a whisper. “Because… because you have to stop. Stop bullying me, Travis.”

But as he spoke, the resentment he’d nurtured began to unravel. Looking at the ethereal figure before him, a different kind of ache bloomed in his chest. He didn’t just want the torment to end. He wanted… something else. “I… I wish you could be my friend,” he confessed, the words tumbling out in a rush. “I wish you would… like me. Maybe even…” He trailed off, his cheeks burning.

The spectral Travis simply watched him, his expression unreadable. When Carson finally fell silent, the translucent figure vanished, the bedroom door closed violently snuffing out Carson's candle and leaving the room feeling strangely empty.

The next day at school was a blur of anxiety. Carson braced himself for the usual taunts, his shoulders tight. But as he walked past the trophy case, a figure detached itself from the group of usual jocks who hung out there. It was Travis.

Carson’s heart leaped into his throat. He flinched, expecting a sneer, a cruel joke. Instead, Travis’s gaze was surprisingly soft, almost hesitant.

“Carson,” Travis said, his voice lower than usual. He took a step closer, and Carson could smell the familiar scent of his cologne, a scent that had always been intertwined with fear, but now… now it felt different.

“Carson,” Travis repeated, his eyes meeting Carson’s. “Last night… I had this… strange dream. It felt so real. And… and I realized… I don’t want to bully you anymore. I never wanted to bully you, I just wanted your... I don't know, your attention, you know? In fact,…” He paused, a faint blush creeping up his neck. “In fact, Carson, I think… I think I like you.”

Carson stared, speechless. Had he misheard? Was this some elaborate new form of torture?

Travis took another step, his gaze earnest. “I do. I really do. Would… would you go out with me tonight and talk all about it or just sit together. Anything, as long as we are together?”

Carson, completely bewildered, could only nod. He was still trying to process the idea that Travis liked him when he suddenly remembered the voodoo doll. He had thrown it away, thinking the spell had failed.

"Oh no!" he said to himself. "I threw the doll away last night!" His eyes widened in horror. It was trash day!

At that very moment, miles away at Carson's house, the sanitation worker hoisted Carson's trash can into the truck. The mechanical arm lifted the bin, and the contents tumbled into the dark, churning abyss. With a metallic groan, the worker pressed the button. The compactor whirred to life, its massive metal teeth grinding down on the refuse.

Back at school, Carson watched in disbelief as Travis's body contorted violently, his bones snapping, his flesh tearing. A fountain of blood erupted from his mangled form, splattering the trophy case and the horrified faces of the students around him. Travis crumpled to the floor, a broken, bloody mess. The scent of cologne was replaced by the coppery tang of death. Carson screamed, the sound swallowed by the horrified gasps of the onlookers. 

Carolina Dean 

Sunday, May 11, 2025

The Moon, Your Mother, and You

Today is Mother's Day in the USA and so we take the opportunity to look to Astrology to help us better understand our relationships to our mothers and mother-figures. 

In the practice of Astrology, the moon is associated with not only our emotions but also our sense of nurturing. How we nurture ourselves, how we nurture others, and how others nurture us as well. The moon always connects to your mother in some way. For this reason, we look to our moon sign to get an idea of our relationship to our mothers, who are usually our primary caregivers.  

By contrast we look to Saturn to learn more about our relationships to our fathers. Saturn is the disciplinarian of the zodiac and our fathers often fill this role in our early lives. 

  • If your moon is in Aries, your mother was likely stubborn and bossy. She may have often pushed you into certain situations or patterns of behavior --- out of love --- to be more outgoing, independent, and free-thinking. The result of this is that you likely butted heads often with her as well.  
  • If your moon is in Taurus, your mother was likely a very patient and determined woman. It is likely that she had good self-esteem and took care of herself, even if she was a bit materialistic. You, in turn, could have been a very demanding baby wanting the best of everything and learned the value of self-care and treating yourself well from her. 
  • If your moon is in Gemini, your mother is probably a very energetic and active woman who didn't let the grass grow under her feet. She's chatty, sociable and open-minded...except when it comes to her child! There can be something of a disconnect between the two of you but that can be overcome with effort and compromise
  • If your moon is in Cancer, your mother is likely very emotional, sensitive, homebody.  You required a lot of love and attention growing up and your mother was there to give it to you sometimes at the expense of other household duties and chores.  As a result, you can be more dependent on others in life as opposed to be self-independent. 
  • If your moon is in Leo, your mother is likely loud, brash, prideful and boastful.  She rarely holds herself in check and can be quite childish at times and so you learned this from her. As a result you and she can get into some pretty spectacular arguments in which neither of you backs down.  
  • If your moon is in Virgo, chances are your mother is a critical, perfectionist. She most likely took care of all your needs well and, seeing this, you wanted more. As a result she likely felt like something of a failure as a mother on some level because she couldn't satisfy all your requirements.  It is likely that there is a certain amount of distance between the two of you in your relationship. 
  • If your moon is in Libra, your mother likely has very good taste and looks put together every day without a hair out of place. In turn, it is important to her that you also look your best each day and she passed on to your the importance of who you know over what you knowShe did her best to treat you fairly and give your every benefit of the doubt.
  • If your moon is in Scorpio, your mother is likely attractive, intense, and mysterious. You may find yourself always wondering what she is thinking or feeling and she, in turn, always seems to know exactly what you are feeling and thinking. As a result issues of privacy may be a concern  between the two of you. You may find that you want to open up to her on an emotional level but you also want to keep some of your secrets too. 
  • If your moon is in Sagittarius, your mother is smart, independent, and worldly.  She tried her best to pass these qualities on to you and so it was likely difficult to raise someone who is as independent and know-it-all as you. Chances are she held you to a higher standard that she had for herself which inspired you to have a broader world view and a natural wisdom. 
  • If your moon is in Capricorn, your mother is likely conservative, formal and somewhat cold. While she take care of your physical needs such as food, clothing, and shelter; you may have felt that she lacked in fulfilling your emotional ones. As a result you felt more like the mother and she the child. As a result you had to grow up fast and more than likely adopted her responsible, goal-oriented outlook.  
  • If your moon is in Aquarius, your mother is likely quirky, unconventional, and altruistic. She probably introduced you to unusual things early in life and so you grew up feeling different. At time it may have seemed that she was more interested in the bigger picture of life and people in general rather than this little person she created. As a result there may be a bit of emotional distance between the two of you. 
  • If your moon is in Pisces, your mother is likely introverted, sensitive and self-sacrificing.  Giving so much of herself can be overwhelming as she would rather shrink into a dream world of her own imagination. Perhaps out of guilt, you try to shield her from your problems and not burden her with them and, as a result you developed a certain emotional strength. 

Carolina Dean  


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